Sunday, August 31, 2014

"What good have I done today?" Benjamin Franklin

Inventor Benjamin Franklin asked himself the same self-improvement question every night:

 In his autobiography, Franklin outlined a schedule that would lead him to "moral perfection." In this ideal schedule, Franklin asked himself the same self-improvement question every night: "What good have I done today?" 

 He described his other rituals before bed as "put things in their places, supper, music or diversion or conversation, and examination of the day." 

Franklin tracked his progress on self-improvement daily.



Kenneth Chenault, CEO of American Express, writes down three things he wants to accomplish the next day:

Brian Ach /AP Images for American Express
Before retiring for the night, Chenault says he likes to write down the top three things he wants to accomplish the next day. This helps him prioritize first thing the next morning.






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source: :: https://my.news.yahoo.com/what-13-successful-people-do-before-going-to-bed-164207246.html


星雲大師:夫妻之間幸福相處的四句話


隨著佛教徒人口的增加,
近年來有一些年輕的男女,
到寺院裡舉行佛化婚禮,要我為他們証婚。
我經常都會告訴他們下列的道理:
如何做一個先生呢?必須要記住:
一、身邊少帶錢﹔
二、晚飯要回家﹔
三、應酬成雙對﹔
四、幽默加慰言。
這四句話是說,做一個丈夫,
身邊不要帶太多金錢﹔因為錢多了,
有時候很容易引誘我們做一些罪惡的事。
再者,做個好丈夫,要回家吃晚飯,
因為好丈夫不能光是忙事業、忙交際,
家庭也很重要。
如果有應酬,要與太太一起參加,
夫妻應該經常同進同出、出雙入對。
平日要幽默加慰言,一個好丈夫,
是一家之主,平常要有一點幽默感,
不要每天板著冷面孔,有時候應該輕鬆一點,
開個玩笑,對於為家事忙碌辛苦的太太、
兒女,要多給他們幾句安慰、感謝的話,
如此,家中必能時時洋溢著幸福溫馨的氣氛。
另外,做太太的也有四句話要記住:
一、家庭是樂園﹔
二、飲食有妙味﹔
三、勤儉為五婦﹔
四、贊美無秘密。
做一個好太太,要把家庭整理得像樂園,
不要讓先生下班回來,覺得家裡很臟亂。
最要緊的,飲食要有妙味,有人說:
“要控制男人的心,先要掌握他的胃。
”只要給他吃得好,到了要吃飯的時候,
他自然會回家。
勤儉為五婦,要做一個像母親、像妹妹、
像婢女、像妻子、像臣子般的太太﹔
也就是說,對待丈夫有時像母親關心兒子、
有時像妹妹敬愛兄長、有時像婢女服侍主人、
有時像妻子依賴丈夫、有時又像臣子伴隨君王。
贊美無秘密,平常對於先生要多說贊美的話,
不要私藏金錢,不要隱瞞秘密。
這樣,夫婦的感情必定很好。
所以,夫婦相處之道,應該是:

為夫四法:
一、身邊少帶錢。
二、晚飯要回家。
三、應酬成雙對。
四、幽默加慰言。
為婦四法:
一、家庭是樂園。
二、飲食有妙味。
三、勤儉為五婦。
四、贊美無秘密。
來源:《星雲大師談處世》

S’porean lawyer set for space trip

S’porean lawyer set for space trip

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S’porean lawyer set for space trip
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SINGAPORE - As a young boy, he grew up on a diet of cartoons like Astro Boy, which featured characters in space.
He harboured the childhood fantasy of going into space one day.
That will soon turn into a flight of fancy for lawyer Simon Tan (right). The 49-year-old is now set to be one of the first Singaporeans in space.

He was among the lucky ones who managed to snag a ticket on a two-seater space shuttle - thanks to a collaboration between watch brand Luminox and space shuttle developer XCOR Space Expeditions. (See report above.)
In a phone interview on Thursday, Mr Tan told The New Paper that he had heard of this golden opportunity from a friend who works in Luminox.

"When he told me a year ago, everything was still in the pipeline. I really didn't think much about it," he said.
But when he was approached again by the friend recently, the lawyer knew he had to grab the chance.
"I never knew that it was possible. The costs involved are quite prohibitive.
"You may have to mortgage your house, or even give up a lot of things in life just to make this trajectory into space," Mr Tan said.

COST:

While it is not known how much the ticket to space will cost, TNP understands that it is cheaper than the US$250,000 (S$310,000) space flight offered by Virgin Galactic, a privately funded space company owned by Sir Richard Branson's Virgin Group and Abu Dhabi's Aabar Investments PJS.

Mr Tan said: "It's a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity that anyone would just jump at. Never in my wildest dreams would I imagine going beyond the earth's atmosphere.
"If I can do something short of landing on the moon, I would do it."

While he does not know when exactly he would set off on his journey, the excitement was evident in his voice as he spoke about the preparations for his space trip.
"I will have to learn to cook with weightlessness, and there are some fitness requirements. Apart from that, I suppose I don't know what else to expect," he said.
To Mr Tan, it is not so much wanting to be among the select few to get to a much coveted destination.
"To be the first - that has never, ever occurred to me. It's the thought of doing something different, something I always wanted to do," he said.

Some may hesitate at taking this road less travelled as it is an uncharted frontier. But he is undeterred.
In space, Mr Tan said, he would want to "look at Earth with all its wonders".
"I will be grateful for my very own existence and the opportunity given to me, and see Earth from a different perspective to remind myself of how small we are.
"The chance to hover at such a high altitude above the Earth's atmosphere is a treat in itself," he said.
The lawyer, whose passion lies in photography, also hopes to snap pictures in space.


Free Time:

In his free time, he would use his telephoto lens to take pictures of the distant night sky. But with the possibility of going to space, he is now greedy for more.
"To be very honest, even with these telephoto lenses, you can never get close enough.
"It can never be purer than taking such objects from beyond the earth's atmosphere. You don't have to contend with light pollution.
"Anyone would pay whatever he could afford to see them. It's a dream come true for any photographer," he said.

Nobody knows about his decision to go to space yet.
"Many people may say, 'Why don't we wait for more tests to be conducted, and wait for others to take the road less travelled?' But I don't know whether the opportunity will come my way again.
"Or maybe it will become so commercialised that it loses its allure. So before it loses that sparkle, why not?"
His parting shot: "To borrow the phrase from Toy Story character Buzz Lightyear, 'To infinity... and beyond!'"

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This article was first published on August 29, 2014.
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Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Indonesia president: ISIS is ‘embarrassing’.

The president of Indonesia, the world’s most populous Muslim-majority country, deemed the actions of the Islamic State in Iraq and Syria group “embarrassing” to the religion and called upon Muslim leaders to unite in tackling extremism, Agence France-Presse reported.
Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono said the scale of the killing instigated by the extremists in their offensive in large areas of Iraq and Syria and the level of violence being used was appalling.
“It is shocking. It is becoming out of control,” he said in an interview with The Australian, a day after ISIS released a video showing a masked militant beheading U.S. reporter James Foley, provoking worldwide revulsion.
“We do not tolerate it, we forbid ISIS in Indonesia,” he added.
“Indonesia is not an Islamic state. We respect all religions.”
Yudhoyono also urged international leaders to work together to combat radicalization.
“This is a new wake-up call to international leaders all over the world, including Islamic leaders,” he said, adding that the actions of ISIS were not only “embarrassing” to Islam but also “humiliating”, the newspaper reported.

“All leaders must review how to combat extremism. Changing paradigms on both sides are needed, how the West perceives Islam and how Islam perceives the West,” Yudhoyono said.
Indonesia is home to the world’s biggest Muslim population of about 225 million and has long struggled with terrorism. But a successful clampdown in recent years has seen the end of major deadly attacks.

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